Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?
We know that divorce rates are dropping. But, the sad truth is that many folks are still unhappy staying married to their spouses. Rather than admit there is a problem, many people find it easier to cheat. Why? Partly because an escape from reality helps them with the “burden” of staying married to their other halves.
Do you have reason to suspect that your spouse is cheating on you? If so, your gut feeling is probably right. To be on the safe side, it’s worth analyzing the facts before reaching such a conclusion about the man or woman in your life.
The following are common telltale signs that your spouse may be cheating on you:
They spend a lot of time away from home
One of the biggest reasons to suspect your spouse is playing away is when they spend a lot of time away from home. Yes, some people have legitimate reasons for doing so – i.e. for work purposes.
But, if your other half works at a local company and usually has no reason to go away for work often, this could ring alarm bells that they are cheating on you! This is usually one of the first signs of infidelity in a marriage.
Not much is happening in the bedroom department
Apart from sleeping, married couples will obviously get intimate with one another in bed. A lack of sexual interest could mean that they are “having fun” elsewhere with someone else. Of course, it’s important not to decide this is the case if that’s the only piece of “evidence” you have.
For instance, it’s not uncommon for stressed people to present little interest in the bedroom. Stress is by far one of the biggest mood killers in any relationship. It’s usually caused by work, but it could be down to just about anything that’s worrying people a lot lately.
Another reason might be down to malfunctioning equipment, so to speak. Some people don’t realize that erectile dysfunction can affect men of any age. And women can get affected by the onset of menopause, for example.
Suspicious voicemails and text messages
Technology can be a wonderful thing, especially if it gets used to catch people out! By far, the easiest way to find out if a spouse is cheating on you is by listening to their voicemails. And reading their text messages on their cell phones!
People that trust one another in their marriages won’t resort to such practices. But, if you’ve seen telltale signs of your spouse’s infidelity, their cell is something that can give you evidence.
Most cheaters will find it hard to lead a double life. You can guarantee that they will leave incriminating evidence on their cell phones from their lovers. Of course, such evidence can also get used as the basis for divorce proceedings.
Hopefully, you won’t need to think about the signs of cheating shown on this page. But it’s good to know just in case.