Foolproof Ways to Get a Date
You don’t act desperate, because it will come across. Acting desperate would mean making it too obvious that you like this person, and making your feelings clear before you’ve even gone out with them. Be casual. Don’t bug them too much or you’ll creep them out.
Listen to Them When They Talk
Really listen to this person when they talk. If you can, ask them some questions about what they’re telling you, as it’ll show you’re listening. If they ask you questions too, this is a good sign as they want to know more about you.
Make Eye Contact
Making eye contact is a good way to show someone you like them. You shouldn’t stare into their eyes for too long though…focus on what feels natural. If you stare at them, you’ll make them feel really uncomfortable. It’s normal for a person who likes another person to make eye contact a little longer than normal, but not much longer.
Lightly touch the person you’d like to go on a date with where appropriate. Don’t be too touchy feely, as some people don’t like this. You could place a gentle hand on their shoulder for a second while speaking to them.
Flirt a Little
If you don’t feel like you’re good at flirting, there are online tutorials on this subject too. Flirt a little and see how the object of your affections reacts to it. The key is to be confident and not creepy. Pretend you’re confident even if you don’t feel like it. It’s always better to flirt in person so that you can see the intent behind it. It’ll also be easier if the person you’re flirting with is local, so you can invite them to something nonchalantly. Maybe a live band night in a local bar. Whether you want a local hookup or a serious relationship, you should always start off like this.
Make Them Laugh
People love other people who can make them laugh. If you can crack a joke or two, you’ll be much more likely to get a date with this person.
Don’t Be Scared of Rejection
When you feel like you’ve built up enough of a connection with this person to get a date, don’t worry too much about being rejected. It can be a scary thought, but the worst thing they can do is say no. Nothing bad will come of it, and if you don’t ask then you don’t get.
OK, are you ready to get a date with the person you like? What are you waiting for? Use these foolproof ways and you’ll have a date in no time!